https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQQE9Soj_M0&lc=UgyQu06K5AO5J3kt6gd4AaABAg 24 Sex should NOT be a RUSH JOB. As you say, start slowly + take your cue from her responses. AND forget the in + out stuff. Vary the speed. DoN'T bore her. :D GREAT ADVICE. Thx. Ken, Toronto, CANADA